Yikes! Does this articles title sound like your experience in domestic organizing? You need help!

Dont panic! Lets start with a simple (yet messy) closet and Ill show you step-by-step how to put that whole things-falling-on-the-head problem behind you.

One of the most important parts in closet organizing is probably one youve managed to overlook. What is it?

Getting rid of the junk.

Okay, okay. I know Ive struck a chord here. Youre pulling out your hair. Youre looking for a place to hide.

Really, its gonna be okay!

Lets start with an easy question. Have you ever given thought to why you keep the things you keep? Theres a reason why you have all those items stuffed inside your closet. At one point you liked these things enough to purchase them, right? Or maybe some of these things were (gasp) gifts?

Do you find it difficult to toss away gifts without feeling guilty for at least...six years or until the giver has died?

Well, Ill admit it. I do find it difficult to throw away stuff I was given as gifts. The problem is, of course, that if I am storing it in a closet, Im not using the item, am I? Unless I have a terrific reason for storing it between uses (if the item is seasonal, for example), it would be smarter to recycle it in some way, by giving it away to someone else who will actually use it or by offering it a home in the trashcan.

Is just thinking about this painful? Hang in there with me!

Lets take a trip through a typical overstuffed closet and see what we might be able to toss so that our closet organizing efforts will be at least minimally successful. Here we go.

-- Starting right in front of us.

When we open the closet doors, the first thing we lay our eyes on is the rack of clothing. Susan Wright, author of Good-bye Clutter, suggests starting with whatevers in the back of the closet. Why? Well, if you used it all the time, it would be out front, wouldnt it?

Okay. Deep breath, lets dive in.

* Is the item too small or too large? It goes in the Giveaway Pile.

* Is it too ugly? Put it in the Giveaway Pile (beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all).

* Is it too worn? Throwaway Pile.

* Is it too outdated? Giveaway Pile (see too ugly above).

* Are you undecided about the item? Then it goes in the Thinking-about-it Pile (this pile will go in your garage for six months. If you have not thought about it or retrieved it within that time period, it magically changes into another Giveaway Pile and goes to your local charity).

Whats left? Remove seasonal items and pack away until needed. Arrange remaining clothing so you can see what youve got; pants with pants, blouses with blouses, etc.

Youre doing great! Lets tackle this next section with our eyes OPEN, okay?

-- Looking up.

Whats in the high, back spaces of your closet? Cant see? Dont WANT to see there? Be brave! Grab a sturdy step-stool and take a look. Heres your goal for this part of your closet organizing adventure: clean out the space, toss what is trash, give away what needs to be given away and put the remaining items in boxes or containers. Then mark those containers so youll know whats in them at a glance.

Hey! No more falling objects! I told you this would work!

-- Looking down.

Were probably looking at shoes now, but there could be other items hiding on your closet floor, as well. If there are dust bunnies mixed in with everything, resist naming them and get to work.

Pull everything on the floor out of your closet. Then sort it all. Clean your closet floor. Get a shoe organizer and put those matching pairs on it. The other stuff should be tossed, given away...you get the drill.

You are making progress! Only five (or so) more closets in your home to go....

-- Pulling it together.

Heres a step to closet organizing that can really make the difference. Now that you know exactly whats in your closet and can clearly see the space in which that stuff is in, you are in an excellent position to organize even better.

What bins, baskets or shelves would give you even more space and help you keep things where they belong? Mark down the measurements of your space, grab your ideas and go shopping.

While shopping take a look at the many gadgets available for closet organizing and give thought to which ones would help you the most. You dont need to spend a lot (although you certainly can spend a wad on closet organizing) and you can end up with a closet that uniquely fits your needs.

Hey, great job! After this the only thing falling on your head when you visit your closet will be the satisfaction of a job well done.